Status Update, To Date or Not to Date?
Now a day’s everything is moving at a faster paced
and prematurely assumed when it comes to dating. This happens for a couple of
reasons; profile information that’s provided online by ourselves, photos of our
day to day activities, tweets or blogs of our inner thoughts, and let's not
forget whatever we like is completely visible to others. That’s why a lot of
men and women are compelled to a string of 1 night stands. A lot of the mystery
is unveiled before people physically interact. This sexual action isn't made by
choice though, it occurs due to a high amount of pressure. However, the
pressure isn't a form of peer pressure and it isn't pressure on one's self.
This pressure is directed to the person that accompanies you on the first date.
With online soul search being more of a fad for the
younger generation, thanks to sites such as tinder, rejection is on the verge
of extinction. Dating mates meet with a wide variety of knowledge about the
opposite sex partner due to communication and some friendly Internet stalking.
Let's be honest, if you're going to meet somebody off the Internet you want to
make sure they aren't a murderer first right? That’s why it becomes a moral
obligation to really know a person before you officially meet them in person,
then have sex with them. Now I'm not saying every first meeting ends with
sexual intercourse but... you're out there and you know what I'm talking about!
This pressure is located in the person you're on
this first date with because it is uncertain if that person is truly into you.
I know this sound confusing but let's look at the facts.
1. Fact, you met this person online, isn't it just
as easy for this person to meet other people online?
2. Fact, no matter how much you talk to this person
they could easily be talking to somebody else.
3. Fact, emotions are created even before you meet
this person. Judging based off of the level of physical attraction alone towards
one another, anything may be possible.
The only thing you know is that they cared enough to
make time for you to meet up and get to know you in person. With that being
said once you’ve met, these facts are embedded in our brains; these facts are
called common sense. And with this common sense comes a guard. This guard
applies to the significant few that don’t put out on the first day. Kudos to
you, significant few, keep up the good work. However, to those who get laid on
the first night is because an opposite affect happens to you. Instead of having
your guard up, you allowed yourself to keep your guard completely down because
of the same facts that helped the significant few keep their guard up.
1. You met this person online and they choose to
meet up with you, which must mean they aren’t talking to anybody else.
2. You talk to this person all the time there is no
way they could possibly be talking to somebody else.
3. Emotions were formed before you’ve met and you’re
physically attracted to one another which mean you must be meant to be.
This is the cause of a false infatuation which is
why everything is moving at a faster pace. At that very moment your first date may
feel like 5 dates in one, like you’ve known this person for some long. You
forget for that one second that you’ve just met this person and one second in
the bedroom is all that’s needed to take the next step.
My readers, take it slow! Online dating isn’t bad.
Some people resort to it because they don’t have the time to meet people in
person. Others use it to meet people outside of their social circle. People don’t
meet in person as often because of technology and how most of the time we are
disconnected to the world. Which makes it harder to make new connections in
person. If you meet somebody online it isn’t your obligation to give it your
all just yet. Keep some guard up and remember to have fun. After all, that’s what
dating is all about.
-Stylish Ev
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